Hi Experts,

I have disputes between me and my wife because of mother in law. Iam staying separetely.
I have filed the civil suite on my parents & wife parents
not interfering my married life.

Filed threated case on my mother in law.

Wife is asking to remove all the cases and I will join with your.

My intention is to rejoin with wife without any legal issues further.

To maintain good releation I can remove all the cases.

But my conditions are

1.My mother in law should not interfere.

2.I should not get any legal issues after removing all the cases.


Now my questions are

How can I get assurance not filing any cases on me after removing all the cases.?

How can I get legal assurance from my mother in law not interfere in our personal life?

What are all the best possible solutions in this case to reunion with my wife?


Waiting for your kind reply ..............

Do not withdraw....Wife's Mothers have taken the roles of the much portrayed Sasumaz and cause of 99% of the Indian Divorces & family related cases today!! She will never stop medelling in your personal life! Your Wife is an adult and your mother in law cannot interfere without your wife's consent & co-operation, making your wife party to that interference...so she is equally guilty!! So you need to decide on if you really want to take back your wife who wants to control your life for which she has taken help of your MIL?

do not withdraw as Buzz rightly pointed

Hi,

Was there an actual need to do all this? I am a bit thinking what was the need to put all these things etc on papers? Cant family sit together and talk. And its not your MIL, its your wife needs to understand how much her mother should be entertained. Things get better when resolved by speaking. Things once put on papers, there is no meaning to that relation. You think getting anything signed and stuff by your wife is going to protect you? This means you do not trust your wife. Than why be with her?

Marriage is about trust. And you have all those things against her mother, how she must be feeling. Accepted it might be her mom's fault. Well its very same in many houses, but this is not what all does. What if somebody had done these legals things agaisnt your mom for her simple mistakes that are common in all houses?

at the end, if you trust your wife, accept her without aqny conditions, if you do not, just walk away from this marriage. Otherwise your wife and your relation if worked out well will be a compromise, not love, meaning true love.

Crazy,

Riya(Mumbai)