your husband cannot get divorce without your consent.

what i don't understand is how can you allow another woman in your husbands life knowingly.

you are his legally wedded wife you have right over your husband.

We are not gooing good sinc so many years, not even talking with each other under one rough, he wanted to settle down with one girl , so he is planing to file a divorce. i dont want to give him divorce nor want to fight with him , i just wanted to be with him forever, like this even..so i m not objecting him for his affair..

as u wish but note your husband cannot get divorce without your consent.

your husband is not with you from last few times so you can charge for a divorce.

Dear madam,

I am surprised aajkal ke zaamaane mein bhi aap jaisi naari hooti hai.    HAT'S OFF TO YOU!!!!

Just want to add one thing,  I feel you are risking with your life.  Your hubby will kill you.

My sincere advice dont let your husband do what he likes. You should take legal action against your husband.

May God Bless You and always protect you.

First of all he does not have grounds for divorce.  Its you who has grounds to get him back in track
Regards

i think your husband can not get divorce without your consent

You will be succeed Yatri, your Hubby can not take divorce without your consent. But I would say what is meaning of legal wedding that you both do not have any talk from so many years. Do you think that it's OK to live without normal condition?? A rationale human being can not live longer with any body in an abnormal condition. I would suggest you to try create a normal situation in home by any method. Rest is up to you.

You should take legal advise & take legal action against your husband because so far your husband is just taking you for ride and indulging into all wrong things.

I do not understand you you do not want a divorce? You have a daughter atleast for her sake you need to take a divorce, she should not be brought up under the shadow of such a father. If she is, she will for her life time have an impression that all Men would be of that kind where one wife isn't enough....she will never trust a man, she will always hate Men! Which I guess is wrong! Not right for her future.  And as a mother I personally think its in the best of the interests and intentions of your daughter that you divorce you kick your husband off your house live in the same place with your daughter and be maintained by him!!

Hi,

There is no point staying with him under one roof. I know what he has done is not at all excepted and he has alomost spoilt your life. But in this ego you think not giving him a divorce would be his punishment? In my opinion no. This relation would be forceful. What is the meaning of this relation? Just to punish him. I am sure when he is around and inside the house you would be hurting yourself every day and night thinking that this guy has slept with that another girl. How much imune you are going to make your self. He is anyways enjoy his loife th way he wants you divorce or you dont. Instead, if you have the proofs, I am sure there has to be a law for a husband chaeting on his wife.

2ndly, inspite of fighting a case agisnt him, he would still not love you, and now even if he comes back to you I think you would not accept him. Whatever the case is, I suggest do not die each day for a person, for whom you are already dead. This relation is dead. Please, he is enjoying you enjoy being with your daughter and her career. Let him go free, meaning just leave him his way and let him fly. I know its very big and people might object to it, but thats what I feel. You cannot force people to be with you, may be physically he would but mentally he is not yours. Ask him good maintainance each month and let him where he wants to.

Riya (Mumbai)

Your husband and you are living under the same roof, so filing and contesting a divorce petition is very difficult. He may take any plea/reason to file a divorce petition as Court will initially accept the filing of the divorce petition. Most importantly, a divorce petition by a husband is frowned by the Courts and most husbands find it difficult to get divorce easily, so do not worry. Once he approaches the court, it is up to you how to object his divorce petition. You say you have enough proofs of his misbehaving’s, you can use them to defend and object his divorce petition. You can also file maintenance petition for you and your daughter and application for right to live in his house; this will also deter him from his motive to divorce you. However, I feel sorry for you, as you have fallen so low and tolerate your husband. Be strong and independent, throw him out of his house and re-gain your lost self-respect by doing something to earn your living.